" When the family has been brought into its natural order, the individual can leave it behind him/her while still feeling the strength of their family supporting them. Only when the connection to their family is acknowledged and the persons responsibility seen clearly and then distributed, can the individual feel unburdened and go about their personal affairs without anything from the past weighing them down or holding them back.
The black sheep of the family bring new life to the family tree!"
Bert Hellinger - the creator of Family Constellations
Essential Family Dynamics Coaching: Created for families to achieve peaceful, joyful and cohesive family relationships.
In the 21st Century, the family unit is under more pressure than ever before. When we try to balance work, schooling, sport, personal time, media messages, the intrusion of social media, and at the same time carry ancestral trauma, and live in high states of anxiety, or stress it is not surprising that harmony within the family can be hard to maintain.
It is possible, even during these strange times of the virus and lock down and personal restrictions, to live in a peaceful and harmonious way as a family unit, whilst still empowering individual interests and supporting both your similarities and your differences.
As both a coach and an holistic counsellor I have created a program for families who want to reconnect in a loving, peaceful and harmonious series of relationships and yet still want to be seen and supported for their individuality as well. If there is addiction in the family we can end that as part of this program.
During this coaching process we work collaboratively as a group and also in 1:1 sessions.
Some of the aspects of the family group that are addressed are:
- Healing intergenerational Trauma
- Connecting with your ancestral wisdom – both lineages
- Individual breakthrough sessions and then we put it all together as a family.
- Identify current family values, find the common values and make these central to time spent together
- Create congruent family goals and lock them in place
- Create internal family rapport
- Master the magic of intergenerational language
- Acknowledge and celebrate each persons uniqueness and make space for individual growth
- Stop drama!
- Remove negative emotions for each member of the family
- Address and negate addiction, phobias, repetitive behaviours
As part of this process we:
- identify the key values of each person in the family, and the family as a whole
- we clear negative emotions from each persons’ unconscious mind,
- we discover limiting beliefs that are blocking a peaceful and positive connection between each family member,
- then we reset the values for each member of the family so they are aligned with the family as a group,
- we create the goals for the family and lock them into each persons timeline.
- We also work in the field of Family Constellations to see what dynamics have been inherited from both families of origin that may be causing conflict within the family and when we recognise and release these the family is free to bring their ancestral wisdom with them and leave difficulties in the past.
- Hypnosis is available if any family members have addiction that they want to end and which will benefit the health of the family as a whole.
There are tasks for each family member and ongoing support.
The process is a total of approx. 12 hours ( depending on the number of people in the family ).
This process is not for families where the majority of children under 10 years, I recommend that children be 10 and over due to their cognitive development required for this process.
Rosey is a Master Practitioner in NLP, Hypnotherapy & Time Line Therapy ® and a member of the American Board of Hypnotherapy, American Board of NLP, Time Line Therapy Association and ABNLP. She is also an experienced Family Constellations Facilitator and an Holistic Counsellor.
The coaching process used is a combination of all from these modalities.